How to cancel eHarmony
A quick, up-to-date guide to cancelling eHarmony — and keeping proof that you did, in case you're charged anyway.
Cancel eHarmony in 6 steps
- Sign in at eharmony.com from a web browser (cancellation is web-based, not in the app).
- Go to 'Settings' / 'My Account' → 'Manage Subscription' or 'Billing'.
- Select 'Cancel Subscription' or turn off automatic renewal, and follow every prompt.
- If the online flow won't fully cancel, contact eHarmony customer care (they may require a call) and state clearly that you want to cancel and stop renewal.
- Decline any retention or discount offers.
- Get email confirmation of the cancellation and keep it — eHarmony has faced regulatory action over hard-to-cancel subscriptions, so proof matters.
What happens after you cancel
eHarmony subscriptions auto-renew and are often locked to a committed term (e.g. 6 or 12 months). Cancelling stops the NEXT renewal but usually won't refund the current term — so cancel well before renewal and keep proof.
Subscribed through Apple, Google, or another provider?
If you subscribed through the Apple App Store or Google Play, cancel in that store's Subscriptions section instead of on eharmony.com.
Charged after cancelling eHarmony?
It happens more than it should. If a charge lands after you cancelled, here's how to get your money back from eHarmony — and why documented proof is what makes the difference.
Frequently asked questions
Will eHarmony charge me after I cancel?
Does cancelling eHarmony delete my account?
How do I know my eHarmony cancellation worked?
Cancelling something? Keep the proof.
CancelProof records your cancellation automatically — so if you're charged anyway, you're covered.
Source: eHarmony Help. Steps can change — always confirm on the official page.
CancelProof documents your cancellation; it does not cancel anything for you and is not legal advice.